Types of kisses

Types of kisses – how many have you tried?

Kissing is one of the most passionate ways to express your love for someone. It is not just an act of intimacy but at times, kissing can even make or break a relationship, especially if it is in the nascent stage. Even people in long-term relationships crave for kisses to keep the fire burning. Still don’t believe us? Well, according to a study conducted by the Department of Experimental Psychology at Oxford University, kissing helps us judge potential partners and plays a vital role in a partner staying around. Since it is of prime importance, it makes sense to have some variety in the way we kiss. Here are a few types of kisses:

Butterfly kiss

Technically, a butterfly kiss doesn’t really involve kissing but is a rather sweet gesture to show how much you love someone. In this type, you come close to your partner in a manner that your eyelashes touch each other’s and then bat them gently against one another’s.

French kiss

Perhaps the most hyped style of kissing, the French kiss is an open-mouthed kiss which involves the use of tongue. Both the partners first lock their lips and then slowly open their mouth to access each other’s tongues. This type of kissing is quite intense and if you want to take things slow, you may want to refrain from this one in the first go.




Spiderman kiss

This one’s easy to guess if you’ve seen the Spiderman movies. Remember how Peter Parker and MJ kiss in an alley? He hangs upside-down and she takes off his mask and kisses him. Also called the reverse kiss, you need to be lying in the opposite direction as your lover, so that only your faces or rather lips touch each other. You can cup each other’s face while kissing.

Pecks

You don’t always need passionate lovemaking; at times, even a peck on the cheek or lips can do the trick. Simply kiss anywhere on the body, by gently grazing your lips against them. you can even give someone multiple pecks to build the mood and then move to more intense and longer kisses.

The hickey

Also called a love-bite, a hickey involves kissing someone by ****ing on an area which leaves it red for some time. One of the oft-preferred areas is the side of the neck but this can be quite visible which could cause embarrassment so make sure both of you are fine with it before giving each other a hickey which can be easily seen by others.

Eskimo kiss
Don’t want to really kiss yet to express your love? Try the Eskimo kiss in which both partners rub their noses against one another’s. This makes for a simple gesture to show affection towards the other person.




Cheek-to-cheek kiss

This kiss is mostly used on social occasions to greet someone in a friendly manner. In this type of kiss, you gently brush your cheek against the other person’s cheek first on one side and then the other whilst making a pout with your lips.



Earlobe kiss
In this type, all you have to do is gently tug your partner’s earlobe with your lips. This can be quite sensual and you can set the mood right with this kiss. Do it a couple of times and then move on to some of the other types of kisses mentioned above.

FRENCH KISS

FRENCH KISS:

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner’s and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.

Relax - You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. That’s it!

Open Lips - Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you’re at the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.

Positioning - Do not have your face dead on to
his/hers, otherwise your noses will touch. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your mouths will meet at the corner of the other’s mouth. If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person. Their lips have already touched. When you touch the other person’s lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple.


Tongue - Practice on your own if you’d like.Open your mouth enough (while you’re by yourself of course!) just enough to stick a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth.
Don’t stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into
yours. When this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a
bit differently) then just do the same as they do. They may flick their tongue over yours
or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing. Or you can
just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing. You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Movement of the head - This is entirely up to you. Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight. Sometimes they won’t. Sometimes just one person moves their head and the other doesn’t. It’s totally up to you.

CELEBRITIES FIRST KISS STORIES

CELEBRITIES FIRST KISS STORIES:

"It was the most disgusting thing in my whole life. The girl injected about a pound of saliva into my mouth, and when I walked away I had to spit it all out." - Leonardo Di Caprio

"It was my prom night and it was a complete disaster. I rented a limousine so I could take this beautiful girl. At the end of the night, I went to kiss her and she responded. I was so nervous that my stomach got really nauseous. I said, ‘Excuse me’-and threw up all over my shoes and rented tux." - Nicholas Cage"

The first boy I ever kissed was Ronny Howard in the fifth grade. He had real white blond hair and skyblue eyes. I wrote his name all over my sneakers and on the playground, I used to take off the top part of my school uniform and chase him around.- “– Madonna


"I was about 15 and met her at a party. I suggested we meet at a park the next day. We held hands and there was a little kissing and sort of fumbling. But once that happened I didn’t really know what to do next. It was a very clumsy affair." –- Sting

"I was in the fourth grade. We made a plan to meet in her garage and kiss. It was like this business deal. I go right up to her, kiss her. Then I ran home." - Brad Pitt

“I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 14 and had my braces off. I was just getting into hip-hop and I was totally overdeveloped, had breasts already and was at least two of three feet taller than other kids in my class. Whenever I was out with my friends, grown men would talk to me and when they asked my age, I’d say,’13’, and they’d be terrified. I got a kick out of that." - Liv Tyler

"My first kiss was from a boy in second grade. He was really pretty and it was good because there was this really tough girl there who fancied him too. So she would hang around with me to be near him. That gave me a good bodyguard. Mind you, I wouldn’t know the boy now if I tripped over him."-Kylie Minogue

"My first real kiss was at a girlfriend’s sweet 16 party. I kissed the most gorgeous boy in high school, the guy everyone fancied, and I was so overcome, I cried. But he didn’t know I was crying because it was dark." - Lisa Kudrow

"I was in fifth grade and thought I was in love with a boy named Graham. So we kissed. Then he broke my heart and told everybody that I was flat-chested and that’s why he didn’t like me anymore." - Reese Witherspoon

"I was 15 or 16. I had heard about French kissing and thought it was the most disgusting thing in the whole world. There was only one guy interested in me, and one day he kissed me and it freaked me out so much I went running over to my friend’s house, so repulsed by it and yet excited because I’d never been kissed by a man before." - Lucy Liu

"I was 12. His name was Nicky and he had braces. We were in the backyard, and I’m like, you wanna do it, you wanna do it? Well, okay, let’s do it. And then we did. It was just awful. But then it was darkness,saliva and tongue." - Charlize Theron

"My first kiss was so bad. It was on the cheek but it was too much. We were at the sixth grade dance,and we were sitting down outside. I held her hand and she suddenly leaned over and kissed me on the
cheek. I yelled,’ Hey!’, but I didn’t mean to. It just came out, and I said,’ I’m sorry’. Then we didn’t walk for the rest of the night and the next day I broke up with her." - Freddy Prinze Jr



"I was at this party and I was 11. We were playing truth or dare and I was a nervous wreck. I remember it was this guy Peter who was from Sweden; he was really really cute. So thankfully he was attractive, but it was terrifying ’cos there were 15 other people in a semicircle looking at me while I was trying to appear very experienced. It was pretty traumatizing - and exhilarating." - Claire Danes

"I had my first kiss when I was 12 and the chap I was kissing was 17, so he knew a thing or two. He had been drinking beer and smoking cigarettes - and it was simply the best taste I think I had ever encountered at that time." - Emma Thompson

FIRST KISS

FIRST KISS:
Everybody is anxious about their first kiss. This is understandable since anything that is unknown can be scary. we've all seen people kiss, either in movies, TV shows or in real life. But how exactly is it done? How do you get over the nervousness? Following questions are answered on this page about The First Kiss. One note, though. In order to experience a truly wonderful first kiss, it must be done with someone you really care about. Someone whom
you've been thinking about day and night. Someone who makes your heart beat faster. Otherwise it’s just another kiss and that is boring. So do not kiss someone just to say you've been kissed. Kiss someone that really means something to you.
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What is the earliest time for kissing?
I would have to say 13, but only close mouthed kisses. French kissing shouldn't be introduced until around 15 or 16.

Will The Other Person Know It’s My First Time?
Not at all. Because everyone has a different style and way of kissing. Also, some people are more into strong, passionate kisses while others prefer to start off gently. You won’t know what style that person has until you've kissed them a few times, and vice versa. Also, once you've kissed someone a few times your kisses start to meld together, meaning that your styles start to intertwine with one another’s. That especially happens when one person didn't realize it was enjoyable to kiss a certain way until they tried it with that person. So then they change their style to this new technique. 

How Do a guy approach The First Kiss?
This can be done in one of two ways. You can either just do it or you can ask/demand a kiss. Asking for a kiss is gentlemanly but not romantic. After the date is over, when the two of you are alone, tell her what a good time you had. Then say something like, "Is it OK if I give you a kiss good-bye?" Of course the other person will know what to expect but it’s not very romantic. But you can demand a kiss. You can say something like, "I’d like to kiss you goodnight" or something along that line. More appropriate I believe.
Just doing it is the best and most romantic way of having the first kiss. It shows that you have enough feelings for that person that you just HAVE to kiss them! The best approach for this is the slow and gentle approach. You’re standing in front of them as you’re saying good-bye. Then take a step or two towards them, hold their hands in yours and lean towards them. Then give them a gentle, lingering, close-mouthed kiss. An even more romantic approach is to cup their face in your hands. This is extremely exciting when the guy does this to the girl.

Is it Ok for a girl to make the first move?
Most certainly! When the two of you are walking just go ahead and take his hand. Look at him sweetly when you do this to check his reaction. Then, when you are ready to say good-bye
just go ahead and give him a kiss.

How Long Should A First Kiss Last?
A first kiss should only last a few moments. Don’t worry about the exact time. Once your lips have touched the other person’s lips then give it a few seconds and end the kiss. To end the kiss just gently close your mouth and pull away gently. If you get carried away and find that you've lost track of time and the kiss is still continuing then that is OK. As long as the other person is reciprocating in the kiss the kiss can continue for as long as you wish.

What would be the best place or way to really get the moment of the first kiss so we can do it for awhile and not make it short?
A great first kiss should always be when you’re alone with her. A movie theater is a good place because it’s dark and people won’t be paying attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. Somebody believes that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you’re dropping her off at her place or saying good-bye from seeing one another until the next time, ask her if it’s okay if you kiss her. It’s not childish or geeky to ask a woman that. It’s respectful and kind.

How should we approach a in the time of our first kiss? Like coming up to him/her and kissing
him/her, how should we do it?
Just act naturally. Walk up to him, put your hands on his shoulders or on his upper arms and kiss him.There shouldn't be any thought to what is going on. Do what feels comfortable and natural for you. And you don’t need to start off with a huge, open-mouthed kiss, either. Start with a small one and work your way up, so to speak.

What to do when our lips meet? 
Somebody feels fear of messing up when they are going for their
first kiss with a experience partner.When your lips meet, just gently press yours against hers. If you wish, you can move your lips a bit back and forth against hers or in a small circular motion.The best type of kiss is when you meet hers at a slight angle. This gives more opportunities to explore, it feels nicer, and will give you a chance to French kiss if you wish.

I’m afraid to kiss my boyfriend because my nose
is too big, and it might get in the way and that
would be embarrassing. What should I do?
You shouldn't worry about it. Your nose won’t get in the way because your heads will be slightly tilted so that the noses won’t bump straight on. And even people who have small noses bump occasionally so don’t sweat it. Just enjoy it!

What Type Of Kiss Should We Use The First Time?
It is suggested to start off slowly. You don’t want to scare them away the first time with a lot of tongue and saliva. You want the kiss to be gentle yet exciting. You can do this by approaching with a closemouthed kiss or a tongue less kiss. Let the kiss be gentle and let it linger. Let the other person yearn for more so that they will be in dire need of another kiss from you the next time the two of you are together.

I feel like when I am kissing my boyfriend that I breathe too loud on his cheek. Is that normal?
Yes

How can she tell if he’s ready to kiss her?
The best way to tell if a guy is ready to kiss is by the way he acts around you. If he looks at you when he’s talking, if you catch him gazing at you, if he acts affectionately around you by holding your hand or holding you close, then it’s pretty sure that he’s ready to kiss.

How does he find out if she wants to kiss him or not?
The only way to find out if she wants to is to ask. There is nothing wrong with asking her if it’s okay to kiss her. Actually, it shows that you respect her and her feelings and that you’re thinking about her interests. You can take a risk and just kiss her and wait for her reaction, but actually asking her is the safest and most respectful route to take. Good luck and take care.

When kissing a girl, how would I know if the reason behind the kiss is merely sexual desire or that she truly loves me? How would I know the difference between the two types of kisses?
Kissing does not mean you have to be in love with someone. It could mean that you like them or are just physically attracted to them. I’m not really sure if there is a difference between a kiss that is love felt and one that is not. You can kiss passionately
with someone that you are only physically attracted to and you can kiss passionately if you are in love. I would say that someone who kisses you who is in love with you will want to prolong the kiss. While someone who is not in love will want the kiss to be
quick and then move onto the next level, which would be touching.

Is it OK to give her a French Kiss for the first kiss?
We wouldn't advise it, especially if she’s nervous and maybe she’s never kissed before. What we recommend is that you start off with a gentle close-mouthed kiss. If that goes well, then you can move
into a French kiss, but it’s not necessary. So don’t feel pressured into giving her a French kiss.

If any body experience French kiss in the first kiss and he/she don’t like it then what he/she do?
If you don’t like French kissing tell him/her! There’s nothing wrong with not liking it. Many people don’t like it or are not ready for it. Unless you tell him/her he/she is not going to know. The next time he/she kisses you, after you've finished the kiss, let him/her know that you would like to try kissing differently. Be
sincere about it. When he/she asks you how, tell him nicely and calmly how you would like to be kissed. Don’t get mad or frustrated with him. Communication is the key to a strong and healthy relationship.
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How do you know when a girl wants to be French Kissed?
You won’t know unless she uses her tongue first. The best way to approach a French kiss if she hasn't first is to kiss her. If her tongue doesn't enter your mouth to touch your tongue then just move your tongue between her lips until it touches hers.

What does a guy want when kissing?
Every guy expects something different when they kiss. That is because every guy is an individual and each guy has his own likes and dislikes when it comes to kissing. It usually takes a few times kissing with one person before the two of you know how the other person kisses and what they enjoy. You can’t tell after only one kiss. Everybody kisses differently.

WHERE TO KISS AND WHAT IT MEANS

WHERE TO KISS AND WHAT IT MEANS:

KISS on the hand means: FRIENDSHIP.

KISS on the nose means: YOU’RE CUTE.

KISS on the cheek means: I NEED YOU.

KISS on the neck means: I WANT YOU.

KISS on the lips means: I LOVE YOU.

Kissing with eyes closed means: I’M IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Kissing with eyes opened means: I’M WATCHING WHERE YOUR HANDS ARE GOING.

The military KISS means ..... "Keep It Simple Stupid".

Stolen Kisses ARE THE SWEETEST! (Always want to return it)

Morale of the story is ... It’s not WHO you are KISSING but WHERE you’re KISSING that matters.

Other signs ...............

Often thinking of you means: I CARE FOR YOU

Holding hands means: I LIKE YOU

Looking into the eyes means: DO YOU LOVE ME?

Squeezing fingertips means: I WANT A KISS

Leaning on the shoulder means: COMFORT ME

Getting occasional short hugs: I MISS YOU

Biting lips means: I AM JEALOUS

Winking at you means: I WANT TO GO WITH YOU

Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU

Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU

Getting hit in "very painful places": I REALLY HATE YOU

Dreaming of you at night: YOU’RE SOMEONE SPECIAL

Always being with you means: I CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT YOU

Wearing his or her ring means: YOU’RE MINE FOREVER

Often giving you something means: CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH

Placing hands on shoulder means: GET THE HINT STUPID!!

KISSING DO'’S AND DON'’TS

KISSING DO'’S  AND  DON'’TS


Don'’ts
Don’t use too much tongue
.
Don’t mash your lips against your partner’s.

Don’t look terrified when the other person approaches you for a kiss.

Do not talk about a first kiss with the person you’re going to kiss for
the first time. This will ruin the excitement and may turn down
expectations.

Don’t salivate all over your partner while kissing.

Don’t just let your partner do all the work during the kiss.

Don’t eat garlic or other harsh foods before a kiss.

Don’t remain emotionless after the kiss.

Don’t wait until the 20th date to kiss her/him.

Don’t open your mouth so wide that it feels like you are sucking the
other person in.

Don’t have the first kiss with someone in public in front of others.

Do'’s

Only use enough tongue to feel the other person’s tongue.
Be gentle with the first kiss.

Smile after you kiss. Or in the least laugh or giggle to show some
emotion.

Swallow periodically during the kiss.

Participate in the kiss
.
Make sure your breath is fresh by either brushing your teeth or
having a mint or piece of gum.

It is OK to kiss someone on the first date. And if not the first date
at least during the second.

Always make sure the first kiss is when the two of you are alone.

KISSING

Kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is no wrong way to
kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Some people, believe it or not, are appalled at the idea of French Kissing or using your tongue while you kiss. While others can’t imagine kissing without using your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that person a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing and to get used to the way that person kisses.

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any
unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different
variations, such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French kiss, maybe sucking on your
partner’s upper or lower lip, then trying the other two types. And don’t just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.

The perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you really care about. There is more caring and
sincerity in a kiss with someone special than with someone you hardly know, although a really good


kisscan certainly bring two people closer together.

A lot of people is in the fear of kissing someone. The best remedy is…not kiss that person right away.
Wait until an attraction builds between the two of you and a romantic situation evolves. Go out with theperson a couple of times before having that first kiss.

KISSING BASICS:
There are so many different ways to kiss. The two main
basic ones are close-mouthed kissing and French kissing. French
kissing involves an open mouth and with tongue, while closemouthed
kissing is pretty self-explanatory. We thought it would be
easier for first-time kissers if they knew at least the kissing basics
before they try to approach other kisses, such as French kissing.

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your
teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than
kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having
something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint
on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don’t take the mint just
before the kiss or chew on gum. You don’t want to have something
in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss.
Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip
gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don’t
wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasantexperience

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer
together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don’t, don’t worry about it.
Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle
or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner’s head
is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer
to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner
prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into
one another’s eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people
find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you’re
more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your
partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breathe through your nose. As your
lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move
your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your
partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you’d give your grandma or aunt.
Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/goodbye kiss or a great first time kiss if you’re nervous.

Hands - There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner’s waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner’s face in your hands (very romantic!), put them
around your partner’s neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner’s
upper or lower arms gently, run your finger’s through their hair, or just hold
their hands in yours.

And there you have it, the basics of kissing! When you try to put them all
together in your mind it makes it seem like kissing is very difficult. But when
you actually apply them in real life it’s quite easy. Kissing is a natural
response to show affection for someone and if done with someone you really
care about it will feel totally natural.